Pros and cons of dating a divorced man
I've never dated a guy with kids, but it wouldn't bother me or make much difference.
My only advice is to be up front about the fact you have kids when you do start dating, because there are some women it will be a dealbreaker for, unfortunately. Just to barge in on the ladies lounge for a minute - I am I very involved dad and have my son 2 days/nights a week and every other weekend (fri-sun) and am learning that it makes a BIG difference.
There's also the possibility of meeting a guy who got married as a child (18-25), but got divorced by 30.
I am currently separated and about to file since things have not changed in my situation(very stagnant).
I am wondering what the various opinions on dating a very involved father.
I am not too worried seeing as I am not quite ready, even if D was tomorrow.
Some women have been positive when me dating someone came up.He has two children, a 13 year old and a freshman in college. If he’s not investing in them financially, he’s going to be investing in the emotionally. I want you to re-read this sentence and ask yourself how you are able to say, in one breath, that this man is loving and thoughtful and then in the next question his motives. I don’t mean that in a “Molly, you in danger, girl” type of way. I’m sure many people in your position feel the same. So you either need to learn how to co-exist with his kids and accept your place in this relationship or you need to move it along.